What comes to mind when thinking of a person suffering from Depression or Manic disorder or OCD ? A Crack person ? weird ? An abnormal person who doesn’t suits to be in society or a danger to others ? Yes to some extend a normal mind doesn’t except someone suffering from any mental ailment, on the other hand why do we take as a part of life any PHYSICAL AILMENT ?
According to the World Health Organisation, ‘if we don’t act urgently, by 2030 depression will be the leading illness globally.’ And this is not wrong to say as we have become more of slaves of our needs and to full fill working like slaves of our own needs day and night, how much do we interact with each other at the end of the day. Mobiles has taken place of social interaction and that too which goes in vein and useless when help is needed, do we have real friend hardly any shoulder to support us emotionally, but we know the status of friends on our social networking friends list.
How much we are surrounded with technology to which we praise but are we able to balance our real relations and share that grim gloomy sad days with someone.
Relations are only sticked upon girlfriend and boyfriend, but do they last long , is there believe faith ? Are they working ?
At large Marriages are not working anymore today.
Depression loneliness sadness overburdened with performance no matter wether it is children, elders , professionals, its like we are running in a rat race which has no end today .
I see parents coming and saying now its your duty to see our kids we have submitted the fees ? is it so really ? The role of parenting ends on just sending kids to colleges and paying fees ?
i suffered from Psychological disorder in which my parents my family supported in healing my heart. What a patient of Mental illness need is all Medicines, love, care , acceptance, proper channel of communication, Treatment by Psychologist, Psychiatrist, Counsellors, social workers.
Don’t make Mental illness a stereotype, Myths, and relating it with ‘PAGALPAN’ (Madness)
The budgerigar also known as the common pet parakeet or shell parakeet and informally nicknamed the budgie, is a small, long-tailed, seed-eating parrot.
But my Budgie experience is going on different track, she eats all the authentic home made ‘MIRCH MASALE wala khana’ (spicy food), to Chinese Manchurian, noodles and what yesterday it was my Bday and she was sitting on dinning table waiting for the cake to be cut and sliced.
The first bite of my birthday cake was taken by my budgie’ bundle of joy for me my friend in loneliness ‘ Her expressions and her anger , love everything is very determined.
When i return home back from work on the knock of door she starts making loud noise and then all she wants is time and talking, sometimes it is not possible and then she comes to my room again and again till i dint rises up and give her time on her favorite place in home i.e dinning room, and her quench for food gets set as the whole family sits on dinning table.
Our pets are great way to bring joy in life and if some time we can spend on observing the beauty of Lord how this interaction process takes place between animals and humans no matter in which language you tame your pet , It is beyond any language the language of love and understanding matrix
When i start here it is quiet sure that i am confused, i remember that little spiral green diary !!! That my mom gave me, knowing that i love to write and what i used to write were very little inappropriate peaces of little thinker, some letters some picture writing and some little stories that i jotted down there in little green diary without thinking or planning of what i was writing then.
Today i feel the importance of that diary and that prompt action of my mother which cherished me to write ever after.
Happy Teachers Day, Mom’s are first teachers to hear us to understand us even when we are Toothless Babbling Babies.
Starting the write-up with a comment which is very genuine in nature to quote here.
”Mannu Man Works at Blue Berry Travel Group”
Duniya m ese b log h jinhone insan k jinda hote hue use kuch dng s khilaya pilaya nhi
Ab pitra dasha k dar se crow ko khana khila rhe hai” (There are people in this world who doesn’t care about living people , they don’t feed them up. From the fear of PITRA DASHA they feed cows”)I am getting largely getting connect with all or most of the cultural practices but my believe in One God and Kindness will stay above all.
Yesterday i visited a store in MGF Mall named ‘THE WISHING TREE’ as we step in any such place which has some linkage to to spirituality a positive vibe come bring goosebumps honestly my experiences of visiting such stores adds new knowledge and an untold power to feel what we can’t see,
On talking to the store manager, he mentioned about his Ashram as well and the products which are already manufactured there only. The purpose to write and share such things is always to spread kindness spirituality and let people give a second though that before following religion it is ‘HUMANITY THAT IS THE BASE LINE OR CONCEPT OF EVERY RELIGION’.
As we can see and notice we as a human are become more intolerant and biased more of wars conflicts crimes.
All i wan’t to say and think is don’t do it because of any fear but do it when you have your parents your relations in this world only.
KINDLY NOTE THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY SPECIFIC RELIGION THIS IS FOR MANKIND ITSELF.
It can be quiet unimaginable to some that some one is going to share the Matrimonial Site Conflict’s,actually today i have really lost control over my emotions and now i don’t seek, think or feel it as my personal issue to be kept hidden. Going on a Matrimonial Site was never my own chosen concept, But Gods will and a desire to find a perfect or say a one Prince charming with perfection or no perfection,
Traits:- The Common found trait is to ask for some months of conversation to understand each other, But after ample of time when it comes to marriage or the involvement of parents things started getting sore bitter and what not.
Even though knowing the requirement of family, they are not essentially not revealed at the begging but as it comes closer to getting married or alliance, they start to come out one by one.
Till you talk all about love its fair, the day you ask commitment it gets worse !!!
#Generally people search for time pass relations.
#Asking for commitment is highly unappreciable.
#The day you connect, Emotional Attyachar starts.
#Over ‘you don’t believe me’ ?
#What if i have ever said ‘NO’.
#Literally i have faced such a heated slangs and abusive language and so much more.
#Pretend and Originality are two different things, there is no relation between both.
A Year On Site:- It has only taught me not to believe on anyone and there is nothing called as #Love #LongTermRelationship #Commitment #Believe #Faith #Honesty #Marriage,
Lose of Innocence :- Again this can sound a bit weird but yes this is true i have lost my #Innocence #FaithInLove #Marriage and #FaithInPeople.
Emotional Loss:- Emotionally i am traumatised, i feel worthless to have a partner, outdated as not to have boyfriends but to wait and believe in the institution of marriage, But last what i get is emotional loss, depression incompetency within self after this kind of process where Guys are very much into the art of tracking down a girl like us making us to believe and then a setback and another and another and so on.