‘Failure’ is not the last key to unsuccessful Life.

Do remember failure is the key to success do not lose hope-‘Hold the key to door till it doesn’t gets unlock ‘Every performer has his own place on a stage; it is set just mark your place’ and identify the best suited role you can play.

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‘Failure’ is not the last key to unsuccessful Life.

 

Career Plan this is the high time when schools and colleges are busy with admissions, and students and parents busy dealing with the overall stress, of their kids previous examination performance and of the upcoming competition’s and the related stressors and overall scenario whether it is the monetary fixation and deciding upon what educational stream their kids should opt for from my past experience as a counselor.

I have  found that most of the students are primarily  confused about the course or program me  they want to make their career in, second thing that they face  immense pressure of their parents, friends relatives etc.

Peer pressure is commonly found factor among the youngster to opt the same as their friends are opting, although the point to ponder on is our interest, the understanding knowledge of a particular subject, retaining power of brain the capacity and capability to perform in a particular course.

Every Program is differently designed and so is the understanding power of the students. The stressors to opt a program even after knowing the performance of their kid’s parents insist due to societal stigma of having their kids to be seen as doctors and engineers.

This is 21st century use the resource of well being around you, study about various subjects, the openings related, arrange meetings with counselors, talk to parents, but do not only buy a subject because of its market value, first evaluate yourself, All you have to do is you have to do it no one else select a program according to your performance level and believe me every subject has its own place and everyone can do wonders in life.

Identify your problems

Primarily identification and interpretation of stressors, secondly analysis the available resources that can help you to get out of the situations, then to cop up with the stress factors, as at every stage of life we have to perform there is no escapism to live life. Situations those are not favorable acts as an stressor and generates the feeling of fear anxiety, effecting the performance. Identify your fear factors analysis and talk about them, these days communication gap between parents and children is wider and thus it is a major factor.

Do remember failure is the key to success do not lose hope-‘Hold the key to door till it doesn’t gets unlock ‘Every performer has his own place on a stage; it is set just mark your place’ and identify the best suited role you can play.

BY S.L.Bilgrami